Do You Really Want Change?
As this new season “springs” upon us, many of us are looking to clear out the old and embrace the new. Change is upon us, and yet, most of us have limited success at creating change effectively and easily. By this time in the year, we have had a chance to observe how well—or how poorly—many of our New Year’s resolutions have progressed, many of us are looking for what change we would actually like to create in our lives—and perhaps in the world at large. Allow me to share with you one tool that will make creating any change a whole lot easier and more effective.
So how do we create the change we are looking for? The most dynamic way to create change is to start by asking questions. A question empowers; an answer disempowers. A question creates possibilities; an answer limits possibilities. So, if you truly desire to create change in your life, you must be willing to live in (and as) the question.
So, for example, let’s say you desire to create more money in your life. I’m sure no one reading this has any desire for more money, but let’s look at it just in case. If you’d like to create more money in your life, start by asking a question such as: “What are the infinite possibilities for huge amounts of money to show up in my life?” or “What would it take for $10,000 a month more to show up in my life?” And be willing to see what areas of your life and which points of view must change to make that a reality.
Asking the question allows the Universe (that infinitely abundant place in which you currently live) to support you and to utilize its resources on your behalf. When you ask a question, you put the universe to work for you. Now, you may call it the Universe, God, Infinite Intelligence, or any other name that works for you. It doesn’t matter what you call it. The important part is to get it working for you. And the way to do that is to ask questions instead of having — or looking for — answers.
Now, you, the curious reader, are probably thinking, “Say what?!?!” Because if you’re like me, you have been taught since you were a kid that you had to have the right answer; and that the right answer would solve all of your problems and lead you to a life of happiness. I was taught that also. My question to you is, “How’s that working for you?”
Really...look at it. How has trying to come up with the answer worked for you? Have you created the happy life you know should exist? Have you created everything you’d like in your life? Or are there areas you continually attempt to change without succeeding? If you’re like most people, having the answer (i.e.: ”I can’t do it because...”) doesn’t work very well. With each answer, you stop the energy of creation and you stop other possibilities from showing up. When you give an answer, even if it’s not verbal, even if it’s just your point of view about something, you are creating a limitation.
Let’s use money again as an example. An answer regarding money would be any limiting point of view that is not a question. When I give money workshops, I’ll often ask the participants this question, “What fixed point of view do you have regarding money that is limiting the amount of money you can receive?” You would be amazed at the answers I receive: “I don’t have enough money to pay my bills.” “I’ll never be rich.” “My family is poor, so I’ll always be poor.” “No matter what I try, it never works,” are all examples.
Nice answers, don’t you think? When you take a point of view, that’s it. That’s the reality you will create. With each answer, there is no way to change it, nor any question on how to change it. With each question, there is the possibility for change. Wouldn’t it be better to ask a question that would allow things to change, rather than taking a fixed point of view that something is wrong or unchangeable?
To change anything you desire, just ask for the change you desire prefaced with the phrase, “What would it take for _____________ to show up?” By using this one simple question, you can put in motion the changes you’d like to see in your life and put the energy of the Universe to work for you to facilitate change in ANY area.
Examples of this would be: “What would it take for my money situation to change?” “What would it take to have an easy time dealing with my kids?” or “What would it take to create a new job?”
And one more question that you’ll definitely desire to add to your repertoire, “How does it get any better than this?” It’s not just a great title for a column, it’s a great question. Ask it when something “good” happens or when something “bad” happens. In a good situation, it keeps the energy flowing, creating more “good” stuff. In a “bad” situation, it allows the energy of the situation to change for the better.
When you give an answer like “Yeah! I’ve got it,” after having something show up, you stop creating more great stuff because you are, in effect, telling the universe (and the creative YOU) that there is no longer any energetic input required. Just as an answer like, “This is terrible!” will make sure the situation you are in is indeed terrible. Asking, “How does it get any better than this?” to both of these situations will change the energy for the better. How does it get any better than that?
Asking these questions will begin the process of changing anything in your life. As you start to ask questions to create change instead of having to have answers, you will find that you can change anything and that the process of change becomes much easier.
Happy questioning!!
Dain Heer, D.C.
www.accessbeing.com
www. accessconsciousness.com
Friday, May 23, 2008
Conversations With BOD
In the Winter of 2004 — it was around Thursday as I recall — an extraordinary phenomenon occurred in my life. BOD began talking with you. Through me.
I would explain, but I’m sure you already understand the story. Let me suffice it to say that BOD has been talking to you ever since you’ve been on this planet—and you have not been listening. Here is what your BOD-Y has been telling me to tell you. . . . .
"Hi. It’s Me: your body. It’s been a long time since we’ve spoken-- mainly because you won’t listen to me anymore. You haven’t really listened to me since you were about six, so I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. I really don’t have much space to say what I need to say because they don’t give BODies much press these days, so listen carefully."
"I’ve done everything I can to try to get through to you. I have gotten fatter. I have made myself tired, wrinkly, and withdrawn. I have even created pain to get you to listen to me. Would you please listen to me for a change so I don’t have to take even more extreme measures?"
"I have a few requests for you. Some might call them commandments, but I prefer requests, since that whole commandment idea seems so, shall we say, Old Age."
BOD’s 10 Requests
1) DO ONE THING A DAY TO NURTURE, ACKNOWLEDGE AND APPRECIATE ME
It will make both of us much happier. One woman in her forties nurtured her body by powdering it every evening, just like her mother used to. By doing only that, she lost twenty-five pounds in two months.
2) JUDGMENT
Stop judging me. It’s not my fault. I don’t look better or feel better from judgment. I do look and feel better from you being nurturing and caring—even to those parts that you’d like me to change. When you look in the mirror in the morning, make the conscious choice to STOP the litany of judgment that you start with each and every morning. Instead, say thank you to me and tell me how grateful you are for me. And wherever you bought the idea that judging what is “WRONG” with me will somehow make it right, will you please UNBUY that idea and return it to sender now? If you don’t know how, call up Dr. Dain. He’ll help you. 3) FUN: I was created for fun. What if the sole purpose of life were to have fun? Would you do anything differently? It’s fun for me to feel the sun on my skin, to be touched gently, to feel the water on my skin, to have great sex, and to MOVE in lots of different ways. I know you have had a different agenda than having fun (like fitting in, making money, getting married, having kids, etc.) ever since you became an adult, but would you please consider that my purpose in life is still to have fun? Just ask me what’s fun and then do it.
4) ASK ME ABOUT ME
Don’t do things that involve me without asking me how I feel about it, and don’t do anything to me without asking me first. That’s simple enough, right? Don’t shove hummus up my nose just because someone tells you it will make us feel sexy and lose weight.
5) HOW I LOOK
If you will just ask what it would take to get me to look the way you want me to, I would be happy to comply. I’ll let you know exactly what it will take. It’s just that you don’t ever ask and then take the time to listen.
6) EATING
I am the one eating. You are not. When it comes time to eat, ask me what I would like to eat. For me, it changes every day. I like meat some days, vegetables some days, fruit some days, and just dessert some days. You just assume that you like green beans so I should like green beans. I say again, I am the one eating! Ask me what I would like to eat.
7) EXERCISING
Please ask me what movement I would like to do, instead of making me do whatever exercise you’ve decided will work for me. I HATE to exercise. It sounds too much like EXORCISE. I’d rather MOVE! Moving is fun for me. But since you haven’t allowed me to move freely since about twelve years old, it’s not surprising that you are trying to get me to exercise to look and feel better.
8) FADS
Don’t buy the latest fad as to what will finally change me. I don’t need to be changed as much as I need to be listened to.
9) WHERE DOES THIS COME FROM?
For every pain, discomfort, and hunger, ask this simple question: “Where does this come from?” No answer is required. If the pain, discomfort, or hunger lessens when you ask this, it is not yours or mine. Just return it to sender. One overweight woman who ate several donuts a day at the office asked “Where does this come from?” every time she had a donut craving. She stopped eating donuts that day and started losing weight within days. True story.
10) I AM A BODY — YOU ARE AN INFINITE BEING
You are not inside of me. I am inside of you. That’s because you are infinite, which is really, really, really big. I’m too small to have you inside of me. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have a connection and a communion. Right?
O.K. that’s it for now. BOD has spoken. Maybe one day we will get the Ten Requests/Commandments right.
Dain Heer, D.C.
www.accessbeing.com
www.accessconsciousness.com
I would explain, but I’m sure you already understand the story. Let me suffice it to say that BOD has been talking to you ever since you’ve been on this planet—and you have not been listening. Here is what your BOD-Y has been telling me to tell you. . . . .
"Hi. It’s Me: your body. It’s been a long time since we’ve spoken-- mainly because you won’t listen to me anymore. You haven’t really listened to me since you were about six, so I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. I really don’t have much space to say what I need to say because they don’t give BODies much press these days, so listen carefully."
"I’ve done everything I can to try to get through to you. I have gotten fatter. I have made myself tired, wrinkly, and withdrawn. I have even created pain to get you to listen to me. Would you please listen to me for a change so I don’t have to take even more extreme measures?"
"I have a few requests for you. Some might call them commandments, but I prefer requests, since that whole commandment idea seems so, shall we say, Old Age."
BOD’s 10 Requests
1) DO ONE THING A DAY TO NURTURE, ACKNOWLEDGE AND APPRECIATE ME
It will make both of us much happier. One woman in her forties nurtured her body by powdering it every evening, just like her mother used to. By doing only that, she lost twenty-five pounds in two months.
2) JUDGMENT
Stop judging me. It’s not my fault. I don’t look better or feel better from judgment. I do look and feel better from you being nurturing and caring—even to those parts that you’d like me to change. When you look in the mirror in the morning, make the conscious choice to STOP the litany of judgment that you start with each and every morning. Instead, say thank you to me and tell me how grateful you are for me. And wherever you bought the idea that judging what is “WRONG” with me will somehow make it right, will you please UNBUY that idea and return it to sender now? If you don’t know how, call up Dr. Dain. He’ll help you. 3) FUN: I was created for fun. What if the sole purpose of life were to have fun? Would you do anything differently? It’s fun for me to feel the sun on my skin, to be touched gently, to feel the water on my skin, to have great sex, and to MOVE in lots of different ways. I know you have had a different agenda than having fun (like fitting in, making money, getting married, having kids, etc.) ever since you became an adult, but would you please consider that my purpose in life is still to have fun? Just ask me what’s fun and then do it.
4) ASK ME ABOUT ME
Don’t do things that involve me without asking me how I feel about it, and don’t do anything to me without asking me first. That’s simple enough, right? Don’t shove hummus up my nose just because someone tells you it will make us feel sexy and lose weight.
5) HOW I LOOK
If you will just ask what it would take to get me to look the way you want me to, I would be happy to comply. I’ll let you know exactly what it will take. It’s just that you don’t ever ask and then take the time to listen.
6) EATING
I am the one eating. You are not. When it comes time to eat, ask me what I would like to eat. For me, it changes every day. I like meat some days, vegetables some days, fruit some days, and just dessert some days. You just assume that you like green beans so I should like green beans. I say again, I am the one eating! Ask me what I would like to eat.
7) EXERCISING
Please ask me what movement I would like to do, instead of making me do whatever exercise you’ve decided will work for me. I HATE to exercise. It sounds too much like EXORCISE. I’d rather MOVE! Moving is fun for me. But since you haven’t allowed me to move freely since about twelve years old, it’s not surprising that you are trying to get me to exercise to look and feel better.
8) FADS
Don’t buy the latest fad as to what will finally change me. I don’t need to be changed as much as I need to be listened to.
9) WHERE DOES THIS COME FROM?
For every pain, discomfort, and hunger, ask this simple question: “Where does this come from?” No answer is required. If the pain, discomfort, or hunger lessens when you ask this, it is not yours or mine. Just return it to sender. One overweight woman who ate several donuts a day at the office asked “Where does this come from?” every time she had a donut craving. She stopped eating donuts that day and started losing weight within days. True story.
10) I AM A BODY — YOU ARE AN INFINITE BEING
You are not inside of me. I am inside of you. That’s because you are infinite, which is really, really, really big. I’m too small to have you inside of me. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have a connection and a communion. Right?
O.K. that’s it for now. BOD has spoken. Maybe one day we will get the Ten Requests/Commandments right.
Dain Heer, D.C.
www.accessbeing.com
www.accessconsciousness.com
Sunday, May 18, 2008
You Are An Infinite Being
As an infinite being, would you have money problems?? Relationship problems?? Dis-ease, pain, or suffering in your body or any other area of your life?? Would you accept less than complete and total fulfillment??? The obvious answer is, of course, “No.”
Then why do we? There must be something else going on. According to ACCESS Energy Transformation, we are infinite beings that have been impacted with so many thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, energies and “virtual realities” of limitation and negativity that we don’t easily believe, know, and perceive that we are infinite any longer.
It’s as if each of us in our true state, is a brilliant, shining, tremendously-bright diamond. If we were to create as that, we would create all of our lives with ease, joy, and glory* (*exuberant _expression and abundance). However, it’s as if that diamond that we each are has been covered with miles and miles, tons and tons, of glop that makes it very difficult to function as the brilliance that we are. So we find ourselves with lives that are less than they could be.
What does that glop look like? It looks like money issues, relationship issues, physical disease, pain, or discomfort, not knowing you are as peaceful, healthy, and free as you can be. In essence, anything which is any form of pain, suffering, trauma, drama, or limitation in your life is part of the glop covering up the being that is you. GET RID OF IT!! YOU DON’T NEED IT ANYMORE!!!
That’s where ACCESS comes in. Begun in 1990 in Santa Barbara, CA, by Gary Douglas, it is like a cosmic “glop” remover, getting rid of huge chunks so that you can shine brightly as who you are. ACCESS has tools, information, and processes, which allow any aspect of your life to change rapidly, when you are ready and willing to have the change.
18 months ago, I was on the verge of committing suicide, tired almost all the time, had a nagging feeling of “yuck” in my gut that would not go away, was constantly worried about money, could not afford a pittance for rent, and did not love myself or any aspect of my life. Worse, yet, I HAD NO IDEA HOW TO CHANGE IT! And then I stumbled upon ACCESS.
Now, I love myself and my life; I have PLENTY OF ENERGY AND MONEY; the relationships in my life have ALL changed for the better; I LOVE what I do; I am at peace with --and in-- my body. And I now know how to share this same gift with others. How does it get any better than this?
If you understand the concept of being an infinite being under mountains of “glop,” then you already know how ACCESS works. It removes the “glop,” “gunk” and everything which holds it in place, freeing YOU to shine.
O.K. you say. “I’m getting it. But HOW does ACCESS do this?” ACCESS goes to the POINT OF CREATION of any limitation throughout all time, space, dimensions, and realities and releases it.
There are verbal processes (with words), hands-on processes, and wisdom about almost every area of life. It can be done in person or over the phone. The purpose of ACCESS is to empower you with the knowledge that you already know everything, including how to shift anything in your life or body that doesn’t work for you. You must already know something. . . you’re reading this right now, aren’t you?
So check in with yourself. See if, in your knowing, ACCESS would allow you to be, do, have, create, and generate more of what you deserve, desire, and know you are capable of. If so, feel free to contact me any time for more information.
Dain Heer, D.C.
www.accessbeing.com
www.accessconsciousness.com
Then why do we? There must be something else going on. According to ACCESS Energy Transformation, we are infinite beings that have been impacted with so many thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, energies and “virtual realities” of limitation and negativity that we don’t easily believe, know, and perceive that we are infinite any longer.
It’s as if each of us in our true state, is a brilliant, shining, tremendously-bright diamond. If we were to create as that, we would create all of our lives with ease, joy, and glory* (*exuberant _expression and abundance). However, it’s as if that diamond that we each are has been covered with miles and miles, tons and tons, of glop that makes it very difficult to function as the brilliance that we are. So we find ourselves with lives that are less than they could be.
What does that glop look like? It looks like money issues, relationship issues, physical disease, pain, or discomfort, not knowing you are as peaceful, healthy, and free as you can be. In essence, anything which is any form of pain, suffering, trauma, drama, or limitation in your life is part of the glop covering up the being that is you. GET RID OF IT!! YOU DON’T NEED IT ANYMORE!!!
That’s where ACCESS comes in. Begun in 1990 in Santa Barbara, CA, by Gary Douglas, it is like a cosmic “glop” remover, getting rid of huge chunks so that you can shine brightly as who you are. ACCESS has tools, information, and processes, which allow any aspect of your life to change rapidly, when you are ready and willing to have the change.
18 months ago, I was on the verge of committing suicide, tired almost all the time, had a nagging feeling of “yuck” in my gut that would not go away, was constantly worried about money, could not afford a pittance for rent, and did not love myself or any aspect of my life. Worse, yet, I HAD NO IDEA HOW TO CHANGE IT! And then I stumbled upon ACCESS.
Now, I love myself and my life; I have PLENTY OF ENERGY AND MONEY; the relationships in my life have ALL changed for the better; I LOVE what I do; I am at peace with --and in-- my body. And I now know how to share this same gift with others. How does it get any better than this?
If you understand the concept of being an infinite being under mountains of “glop,” then you already know how ACCESS works. It removes the “glop,” “gunk” and everything which holds it in place, freeing YOU to shine.
O.K. you say. “I’m getting it. But HOW does ACCESS do this?” ACCESS goes to the POINT OF CREATION of any limitation throughout all time, space, dimensions, and realities and releases it.
There are verbal processes (with words), hands-on processes, and wisdom about almost every area of life. It can be done in person or over the phone. The purpose of ACCESS is to empower you with the knowledge that you already know everything, including how to shift anything in your life or body that doesn’t work for you. You must already know something. . . you’re reading this right now, aren’t you?
So check in with yourself. See if, in your knowing, ACCESS would allow you to be, do, have, create, and generate more of what you deserve, desire, and know you are capable of. If so, feel free to contact me any time for more information.
Dain Heer, D.C.
www.accessbeing.com
www.accessconsciousness.com
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